Politeness, or why the first message is everything

Hello! For me, honestly, the first message is like a miniature first date. Only instead of coffee, there's the internet, and instead of a glance, there are words. So you open online dating sites for singles and see hundreds of profiles, but... someone writes "Hello." Just "Hello." That's it. It's like showing up to a meeting and silently waving your hand. A bit boring, right?

On relationship websites, I always notice that the most interesting conversations begin not with banal phrases, but with something lively; such original messages exude warmth, and it's palpable.

Because on online dating sites, we're not just looking for a partner, but for emotions—easiness, a smile, a spark. And politeness here isn't about a dry "hello," but about attention, kindness, and a little charm.

So, if you want a response, don't be afraid to be a little original. After all, sometimes one sincere "Hello, I'm interested in knowing what makes you happy" works better than a thousand templates.

Yaroslava

11.11.2025
Yaroslava, 23
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