Online dating without rushing, or why sometimes slow means deeper
ID: 300Just one drop… or should I ask for more?
Sometimes a single drop of attention is all it takes to turn an ordinary day into something deliciously memorable. But knowing myself… I might start craving more once I get a taste.
You know, even singles online dating sites and online matchmaking services can’t teach one simple truth - A man fears not losing a woman, but losing power over her!!!
He's not jealous because of love - he's jealous because of control. When a woman stops responding, his confidence crumbles. He can't stand the thought of no longer being in control of her emotions. For him, it's not about feelings - it's about power.
A hunter inside him turns on: he must reclaim territory, prove he's still in charge.
But here's the paradox: the harder he tries to regain control, the weaker he appears.
True power is when a woman doesn’t play games, but simply chooses. Her strength lies in the fact that she doesn’t need validation. He feels it in his gut - and that’s what drives him crazy. Not her body, not her smile - the feeling that she can’t be held.
A woman who can’t be controlled is the most powerful trigger for a man’s psyche. She disrupts his frame of reference, making him dependent on trying to unravel her.
And the more he analyzes, the deeper he sinks. Because next to her, a man is confronted not with a woman, but with his own vulnerability.
So are you brave enough to face that kind of woman - or would you prefer the illusion of safety like on safe online dating sites?
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