When chatting becomes a roller coaster

Hey, it happens that yesterday someone wrote kind words, joked, invited me for coffee, and today they respond curtly, as if they've forgotten who I am. Yes, the emotional roller coaster of online chats is a real adventure. But, honestly, I still believe that somewhere in this chaos, you can find love online.

Sometimes I feel like all the people on online dating services fall into two types: those who text "good morning" every day, and those who show up once a week with "hey, did you miss me?" And between these messages, I go through all the stages, from delight to mild disappointment.

But I'm not looking for perfection. I just want stability, for the conversation to be lively, interesting, and attentive, not scheduled. When I log into top online dating sites, I hope to meet someone who isn't afraid to be consistent and genuine, even through a screen.

So if you're reading this and recognize yourself, just write. Not perfectly, not template-style. The main thing is to be sincere. After all, sometimes the most genuine stories begin with a simple "hello."

Yaroslava, 23
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