Online dating without rushing, or why sometimes slow means deeper
ID: 300How words in correspondence create an image and make us fall in love
Hello! When it comes to correspondence with people, I am increasingly convinced: words are magic. They can create images, charm and even make us dream. Using international dating sites, each text becomes a small step towards understanding the person on the other side of the screen.
For some reason, simple phrases like “Good morning” or “How are you today?” make you smile. These are such small signals that they are thinking about you. And so you sit, read these lines and catch yourself thinking: “But someone wants to make my day better.” Yes, I believe in the power of text.
But correspondence can be different. On online dating sites, these can be heartfelt conversations and sometimes short SMS. And then the magic of imagination begins. You try to discern the character behind the words. If someone wrote: “Tell me how your day was” - that's a plus. If “What are you doing?” - a little banal, but also good. But “Hello” without a comma… well, that’s something to think about!
You can meet anyone on places to meet women online. Someone will write you three pages of text about how their day went. And someone will limit themselves to a dry “Hello, you’re cool.” At such moments, you understand: it doesn’t matter how many words are in a message, what matters is what feelings they evoke.
The sweetest thing about correspondence is the unexpected. For example, when you see a message in the middle of the day: “I thought of you.” These words are simple, but they make you feel warm. Or when someone suddenly sends a photo “Look at how beautiful the moon is today.” At such moments, it seems that you are connected by something more than just a chat.
The main thing is to be sincere and listen to your heart. And who knows, maybe something real awaits you in the next message?
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