Politeness level: how to start a correspondence so that the interlocutor wants to continue

Hi! I'm Yasya. Yes, I'm one of those girls who decided to try online dating services. Not because I'm bored, but because I'm interested, I'm open to new experiences and secretly hope to find real communication and love.

But there's one small nuance: how to start a conversation so that it doesn't look like submitting documents to the embassy?

Seriously, sometimes the first message sounds so official that you involuntarily begin to doubt whether this is a safe online dating site or a government services portal? Everything is much simpler, you just need to be alive, not a copy of your profile. But a real person, with emotions, maybe even a little excitement and, preferably, with a smile.

And it's also important to be yourself. Without excessive seriousness, but also without phrases like: "Hey, baby, what are you doing tonight?" Believe me, this is not the same vibe. Let's remember that places to meet women online is not a speed quest, but a place where you want to feel interest, ease and respect.

And if you ever bump into me here, don't be shy about saying "hi." I might just be the girl who answers with a smile... and maybe a few questions in return. Because sometimes good stories don't start with fireworks, but with a warm, simple "hello."

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