Hello, my dear love seekers! If you've ever visited an international dating website, you've probably noticed: sometimes a conversation with a girl goes easily and naturally, and sometimes there's suddenly silence, strange questions, or unexpected reactions. Congratulations, you've got into the game!
As a psychologist (and a girl actively looking for love online), I know for sure: we women test men even unconsciously! Well, since I'm into mind games, it's time to reveal a couple of our techniques:
"Lost - Find Me"
This is a classic. You were chatting, everything was going great... and suddenly - silence. She doesn't answer for an hour, a day, or maybe even longer. Men panic: "What happened? Is she not interested?" But in fact - a test. She's watching whether you'll look for her, show patience, or immediately switch to another in best online dating sites for seniors.
"Do you even read what I write?"
There is one subtle way to check how attentive a man is: a girl can ask you a question again that you have already answered, or mention something she told you before, pretending that she "accidentally" forgot. If you remember the details - a huge plus! If not... well, maybe she is already looking for someone more attentive.
"Filter for banalities"
Phrases like "Hi, how are you?" work if you accidentally bump into each other at a coffee shop in real life. In correspondence - no. Women love to be hooked by originality. So forget the standard "You are so beautiful" and try something like: "If your mood today was a song, what would it be?"
But don't be offended! This is not manipulation, but rather a way to understand who is in front of us - a random interlocutor or someone with whom you can build something real. If after this text you thought: "Oh my God, I failed all the tests!" - don't worry, the main thing is that you now know the rules of the game)
And if you want to try yourself - you are welcome to the world of online dating services! Who knows, maybe it is you who is looking for the one who is so mysterious at first glance, but in fact is just waiting for someone who will understand her?)
