Politeness, or why the first message is everything
ID: 300Just one drop… or should I ask for more?
Sometimes a single drop of attention is all it takes to turn an ordinary day into something deliciously memorable. But knowing myself… I might start craving more once I get a taste.
You know, even singles online dating sites and online matchmaking services can’t teach one simple truth - A man fears not losing a woman, but losing power over her!!!
He's not jealous because of love - he's jealous because of control. When a woman stops responding, his confidence crumbles. He can't stand the thought of no longer being in control of her emotions. For him, it's not about feelings - it's about power.
A hunter inside him turns on: he must reclaim territory, prove he's still in charge.
But here's the paradox: the harder he tries to regain control, the weaker he appears.
True power is when a woman doesn’t play games, but simply chooses. Her strength lies in the fact that she doesn’t need validation. He feels it in his gut - and that’s what drives him crazy. Not her body, not her smile - the feeling that she can’t be held.
A woman who can’t be controlled is the most powerful trigger for a man’s psyche. She disrupts his frame of reference, making him dependent on trying to unravel her.
And the more he analyzes, the deeper he sinks. Because next to her, a man is confronted not with a woman, but with his own vulnerability.
So are you brave enough to face that kind of woman - or would you prefer the illusion of safety like on safe online dating sites?
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NEW11.11.2025Hello! For me, honestly, the first message is like a miniature first date. Only instead of coffee, there's the internet, and instead of a glance, there are words. So you open online dating sites for singles and see hundreds of profiles, but... someone writes "Hello." Just "Hello." That's it. It's like showing up to a meeting and silently waving your hand. A bit boring, right? On relationship webs...Read more
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Attraction is always a game with fire…
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ID: 2132It’s funny, isn’t it? How something as simple as slow dancing in the kitchen can feel more romantic than a fancy dinner or a weekend trip. No music from the radio, just the sound of the kettle boiling, or maybe a soft tune playing from someone’s phone. Bare feet on cool tiles. His hands on her waist. Her head resting against his chest. The world stops for a few minutes and that’s when you realize,...Read more -
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About Intimacy
ID: 2507When we talk about intimacy, most people imagine touch, passion, physical connection. But true intimacy is not only about the body, it is about an inner revelation. It is that rare state when, next to someone, you can simply be yourself without masks, without tension, without fear of being misunderstood. Intimacy - is not just when your bodies know each other. It is when your souls speak withoutRead more