Avatar as a Rorschach test: what do people see in your photo online?

Hi! So you uploaded a photo to online dating sites for singles and that's it, it starts to live its own life. One person will see seriousness and reliability in it, another, lightness and adventurism. On relationship websites, your photo may seem like an "ideal partner for a family", or it may become "a person for bright emotions"

The trick is that a photo is like a psychological test, we read not only the picture, but also our own expectations. The same image will mean completely opposite things to different people.

So the question is not only what kind of photo we post, but also what people want to see in us. And here it becomes interesting: what exactly did they see in you?

And in the end, I can say that online dating sites are like a kaleidoscope: the same image is laid out for everyone in their own way

12.09.2025
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